"The best way to FORGIVE is to FORGET"

        I know all us have problems. Problems which hurts us the most and problems which gives an impact in our life. I can tell some of these were given by our love ones which give us too much pain the reason we can’t forgive them even though they were our family. There was quote I used to escape this reality which is “The best way to FORGIVE is to FORGET”. This was the quote I applied to my problems especially when I can’t find the way out of it. Come and hear that problem of mine.

                

         There’s an instance in my life where I hate the world so bad. It was a day in May. I can never forget that day because it was the day when I knew my father died in CANCER and NOT IN THE WATER IN HIS LUNGS. I cried a lot. I felt that the world betrayed me. I hate everyone else especially my sister and brother because they didn’t even tell to my Nanay and to me. I was full of anger and hatred to them. They were too selfish. They didn’t even think how I would feel.  Everything was so dark in my mind. I can’t accept the fact that my family lied to me even though they knew how much I love my father. They can’t understand the pain I had when I can’t take care of him in the hospital because of my studies. The sadness I felt when I was living with my relatives. The worries I had when I was waiting for the results of his tests. The sacrifice I had not to see him every day that’s why if only I knew the truth I’m really GIVING UP my school for him and everything else. I don’t care what will happen to me but instead I will do everything because it’s the life of my father. The father who also gave everything to me. But because of their lie I haven’t had a CHANCE TO DO EVERYTHING FOR HIM BECAUSE THE BELIEF THAT HE WAS ALREADY FINE WAS TOTALLY THE OPPOSITE OF IT. So, even though it hurts me so much I chose to forgive them because I know there’s nothing I can do anymore. IT ALREADY HAPPENS.

              

        This is the reason why I totally agree that “The best way to FORGIVE is to FORGET. Because nothing will change even I get mad to them that’s why I decides to FORGET what happened and FORGIVE what they have done to me because no matter what happen they are still my FAMILY. So to everyone, I just want to tell you that “Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you” and whenever problems that you can’t handle just apply this quote and everything will be okay “The best way to FORGIVE is to FORGET”.